Thursday, October 9, 2008

Relationship part ll - fate & faith

I think this is the better version to complete the part ll - fate and faith
Have you ever met someone living at the other continent, fell in love and believed that it would work?

Well, i have a thought this morning while driving, some people met their partner domestically, lucky, some whom always traveled around the world for business sake, higher chances get to know new people but they only met their partner back in their homeland, likewise for those who got relocated or migrated to oversea for years, others couldn't find their soulmate but across the ocean. How facsinating.

I guess for some reasons, same cultures and background still the basic attraction, a gal friend told me, I only want chinese from my own country, well. Another gal friend of mine met her husband who worked in a western country nearly a decade, back home and found her, for this instance, an add on culture attracted both of them. Another gal friend of mine met her partner who traveled thousand miles away to meet her and that destined a long distance relationship(LDR).

I recalled " The Alchemist" (this is the side story from this post), the boy met a woman during his shepherd time, he thought he wants to go back again to meet her but fate changed and he met another woman in a tribe when he traveled to desert, he knew that's her when he looks into her eyes. So it revealed things about "fate", should he refused to follow omen to pursue his personal legend, there he will ended his life by being a shepherd and married to the merchant's daugther. In this case, at last he found his woman along the journey to his personal legend. Well, nothing right or wrong, it's just about fate and fate was determined, yes i believed so and i want to believe so. God's preaches, when your heart is at ease, this means your decision's a right decision.

Well, back to the LDR, i believed very much it determined by fate and of course it sustained by faith at the end. How extraordinary that both got connected from different part of the world, and sustain by distance "touch". Well, it can happened as long as the communications are there. When the physical communications are absent the verbal communication become an important role. It's more challenging compare to other relationships as one broken down, it destined the end of it.
Well, for my gal friend case, much that she wanted this relationship to last but life is volatile, she can't run away from the so call doom of LDR. It sad to hear that when she withold such a staunch believe but things doesn't work out. However take a look at the boy, if he destined to let go the personal legend for the time being to become a crytal seller, he has to live with it. It's challenge, it's life, we choose to believe it happened for a reason and we learnt from it. So i told her, leave it to fate, it'll bring the right destiny to her.
Well, i hope she will slowly accept the fate and move on..god bless my dear
p/s: I don't understand the paragraph seems unable to space it regardless how many times i've tried.

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