A boat

Is it a must to find someone to Complete our life? Answer is Yes.

God make us attracted to opposite sex, we can't deny that there are elements which we don't possess, we can't deny that it's the non-possessed elements which created the desire. Simple thing like a strong arm. However to be able to live together there is something more than just an arm. It's about compatibility. The compatibility about our needs and wants. But not dependant. Yes, it's the most wonderful thing when you found someone whom able to add-on to your life. add-on means to fill up what you don't possessed however can live without. However most people enter into relationship for wrong reasons.

What's your needs and wants? Where are you? What do you need from a man? When you able to assess these, you make thing less complicated. However sometime LOVE blinded us, not many could think rationally when you're in love. Loves come in strong wave, loves is enchanting, loves in fascinating. But when you been through exquisite pain from love, you'll.

Let me make use of boat as the analogy in this post.

When we start sailing on the ocean, you feel free, your destination is indefinate. However you feel cold and lonely in the dark, after sometimes in sailing, you wanted to ride into another boat desperately. You never assess where you wanted to land, what hull does the boat made of, is that a motorised boat, does the boat has the anchor to stop by to get food, does the rudder works, is there is enough gas to run, does it has a cabin to keep from rains. So when you start sailing together, sunny, blue sky and freedom, company that keep you warm at night. However, when time goes by, you realised sailing under the sun is hot, sailing when it rains is tormenting, and you start worrying about your future. You realised the boat isn't going to land and it isn't strong to overcome the storm, the boat slapped by the strong waves and it broke into pieces. There you learnt, you need set a direction, you need a strong boat and the boat must have the same direction you wanted to go.

So what does my boat made of? I wanted to ride in a boat has plan to overcome the journey to the destination. A boat When you found someone sailing towards the same direction, you should join in the same boat. That's the boat i wanted.