We hear compliments like this all the time, basically the compliments came from where one has given a hand, said something warm. But do you know that, you can be kind other than doing these?
I think human is a simple creature in this respect, they need to be respected, felt recognised, soft in the inside but tough on the outside. Thus by understand this, we will know what's deemed "KIND".
Do you know Soft spoken is one of them? They felt respected, no one like to be harsh at
Do you know speak slowly is another one? They felt recognised, because you WANT their attention
Do you know listening is also the one? Same as the earlier one, they felt recognised, because they felt IMPORTANT
Do you know smiling is another one? Yes, they felt recognised too since you SEE their existence
So be sure to speak softly, speak slowly, listen attentively and don't forget to smile:)
When you give them all these 4, you are already at the first step of achieving happiness, because your happiness is when others are happy too. Agreed?
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